College is the time to hook up and casually date. For one, that's when you look your best. I was reading an older Glamor magazine, and there was an article in there talking about how college students don't do relationships, they mostly have hook ups and they casually date. That it is widely accepted now days, where as back in the day doing more than kissing with someone that wasn't your boyfriend or girlfriend, or even a spouse was frowned upon. Having sex with someone that you weren't married to was not allowed.Gradually things changed, now a large amount of people casually dates and hooks up.
I personally don't think many college students ( especially men) want a serious relationship. I know I sure don't, I don't have the time for one and I just don't want to deal with one. I just want simple, my life is stressful and crazy as it is.
What is your opinion on casually dating and hooking up? Yay or Nay?
♥Ash
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I think that college is the time to do it if you're going to. There are cons and pros. I did it for a while my freshman year, but I have always been a relationship type of girl. I just am. I fit better with someone else, I function better. I like being with someone... and when I was in flings, they were not fulfilling... they were JUST fun... and at the end of the day, I want more than just a fun night. I want cuddling, I want someone who will be there for me when I am having the worst day ever with a box of napkins and my favorite chocolate even though I look like shit cause my mascara is everyone. That's what I want at the end of the day... and that is what I have.
ReplyDeleteBut it may not be what everyone else wants.
Everyone is different. Some people just want to go around hooking up, some want something more. Not all relationships have to take up all your time, you can take it easy. It's your choice on what you want to do.
ReplyDeletei did both..
ReplyDeletehooking up was fun for a while.
but it got old. the newness wears off.
but in a relationship, the spice is always there.
it's there cooking dinner or when your feeling sexy. its not time consuming unless you make it. theres still time for friends and going out without him and with school.